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Discover your Saboteurs, a free 5-minute assessment

The Positive Intelligence® Saboteur Assessment is the ideal starting point for any teenager, or parent, wanting to understand what's getting in the way of feeling calm, confident and in control.

Saboteurs are the internal patterns, the Judge, the Perfectionist, the Pleaser, the Hyper-Achiever and others, that drive anxiety, self-doubt, and emotional overwhelm. The assessment identifies which ones are most active for you, in just five minutes.

Results are entirely private and will not be shared with anyone. You can bring them to a session if you choose, but there is no obligation to do so.

Take the free assessment

Takes around 5 minutes to complete

Identifies which of the 10 Saboteurs are most active for you

Results are completely private

Based on the Positive Intelligence® research of Shirzad Chamine

Suitable for teenagers and parents alike

A great first step before a session or workshop

Guided recordings for teenagers

These recordings use hypnotherapy and guided relaxation techniques to help teenagers interrupt unhelpful patterns, calm the nervous system, and sleep more easily. Your teenager can use them independently at any time.

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Calm before sleep

Approx. 20 minutes

A gentle guided recording to help quiet an overactive mind at bedtime, release the tension of the day, and drift into restful sleep. Best listened to lying down with headphones.

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Exam stress reset

Approx. 15 minutes

Designed for the days and weeks around exams, this recording helps interrupt the anxiety spiral and build a calmer, clearer state for revision and performance.

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Confidence before something big

Approx. 15 minutes

For before a presentation, interview, performance, or any situation where your teenager needs to feel grounded and capable rather than overwhelmed.

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Mental fitness workshops

Live online workshops based on the Positive Intelligence® framework of Shirzad Chamine. Each session gives teenagers and parents practical, science-backed tools to interrupt self-sabotage, manage stress, and build genuine mental resilience. All sessions are recorded so you can watch back if you can't attend live.

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Mental Fitness Webinar

Online · 45 to 60 minutes · For teenagers and parents

An introduction to the Positive Intelligence® framework, what mental fitness is, how self-sabotage works, and how to start building the mental muscle that makes everything easier.

  • Discover which of the 10 Saboteurs is most active for you
  • Learn the neuroscience of happiness and peak performance
  • Simple 10-second techniques to activate your "right" mind
  • The Three Gifts Technique for turning setbacks into opportunities
  • How to generate peace of mind even in the middle of challenges

Recommended: Take the free Saboteur Assessment above before attending.

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Mental Fitness Deep Dive Workshop

Online · 2 to 4 hours · For teenagers and parents

A longer, more interactive version of the Mental Fitness Webinar, going beyond understanding into real personal insight. Includes breakout discussions based on your individual Saboteur results.

  • Everything covered in the webinar, in greater depth
  • Saboteur breakout groups, explore your specific patterns with others who share them
  • Understand the lies, limiting beliefs, and impact of your top Saboteurs
  • Shift from conceptual understanding to personal insight
  • Leave with a clear picture of how you have been getting in your own way, and what to do instead

The Saboteur Assessment is required before this workshop. Take it free above.

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Want to know when workshop dates are confirmed? Leave your details and I'll be in touch as soon as dates are set.

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Guidance to help you help them

Short, practical articles on the questions parents most commonly ask before and during this work.

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How to talk to your teenager about getting help

Most teenagers resist the idea at first. This guide walks through how to have the conversation in a way that feels low-pressure and keeps the door open.

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Is this normal teenage behaviour or something more?

A practical guide to understanding the difference between typical teenage mood and the signs that something deeper may be going on.

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What BWRT actually is, in plain language

Many parents haven't heard of BWRT before. This guide explains how it works, why it's effective with teenagers, and what a session actually looks like.

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What Positive Intelligence® involves and why it works

An introduction to the PQ framework for parents, what it is, how it differs from standard coaching, and why it's particularly effective for teenagers under pressure.

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How to support your teenager between sessions

Practical guidance on what parents can do at home to complement the work happening in sessions, without adding pressure or inadvertently undermining progress.

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When to seek additional support

An honest guide to when coaching and therapeutic techniques are the right fit, and when a different level of support may also be needed alongside this work.

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Things you can try right now

Simple, practical techniques you can use on your own, before you've ever had a session, to start interrupting the patterns that aren't helping you.

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The 4-7-8 reset

A simple breathing technique that activates the parasympathetic nervous system and physically interrupts the anxiety response within 60 seconds. Works anywhere, no one can tell you're doing it.

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Name your Saboteur

Once you've taken the Saboteur Assessment above, this guide helps you understand exactly how your top Saboteur is showing up day to day, and the first steps to interrupting it.

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The pause and redirect

A quick technique for catching a spiral early, before it takes hold, and redirecting your attention in a way that doesn't require willpower or force.

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The brain dump

A structured 5-minute exercise for offloading a busy, anxious mind before sleep or before something you're dreading. Simple, quick, and surprisingly effective.

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Frequently asked questions

Yes. Everything on this page is free with no obligation. The recordings require an email address to download so I can send them to you directly, but there is no automatic sales follow-up. Workshops are free to attend live.
It is strongly recommended before the Mental Fitness Deep Dive Workshop, and helpful before the webinar. The assessment is free, takes around 5 minutes, and your results are completely private. You can take it using the link at the top of this page.
The recordings are designed for anyone aged 13 and over. They use guided relaxation and hypnotherapy techniques which are gentle and non-invasive. If your teenager has a diagnosed mental health condition, please check with their GP or mental health team before using them.
Yes, all workshops will be recorded and made available to registered attendees for a limited period after the live session. If you register and can't attend live, you'll receive a link to the recording.
Yes, absolutely. The recordings are designed to complement 1:1 sessions and can be used between sessions to reinforce the work we do together. If your teenager is working with me, I may suggest specific recordings at relevant points in our work.
The best way is to register your interest using the notify button in the workshops section above. I'll send a short email when new recordings, articles or workshop dates are added. You can unsubscribe at any time.

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